Agreeableness
Welcome to this week’s devotional, where we’ll be talking about biblical agreeableness.
We are called to be reflections of Christ in our world, and that can look very different depending on the circumstances. Agreeableness, in this context, is talking about changing our behaviors in order to make others more comfortable, and assist in their mental and spiritual well-being.
Agreeableness isn’t about compromising your truths, values, or beliefs, but rather creating a space where others feel respected, loved, and safe. It’s about showing love, the way that God shows us love.
1 Corinthians 10:32-33 says: “Do not cause anyone to stumble, whether Jews, Greeks or the church of God—even as I try to please everyone in every way. For I am not seeking my own good but the good of many, so that they may be saved.”
Paul is talking about humility here, not people pleasing. He is choosing to set aside his own opinions, comfort, and cultural habits. Not to win an argument, but to walk in love, showing others that they are worthy of respect and love. His goal isn’t to win an argument, it’s to open doors through love, kindness, and understanding.
Paul’s agreeableness isn’t about being liked, it’s about honoring the humanity and dignity of others. He’s showing people respect despite their differing views from what his were. This is the kind of grace and love that we’re called to show to other people in our own relationships.
We aren’t called to change our beliefs, but to show love over pride, patience over pressure, and empathy over ego. Sometimes, it helps more to listen than to speak; to take time to understand someone, rather than try to change who they are. It’s about making space to love others, as God made space for us.
Let’s move through this week asking ourselves: “Who in my life might feel more seen, heard, and loved if I showed them more grace, empathy, and patience—rather than trying to prove a point?”
Thank you for joining me, and may we continue to grow in the love and grace of Christ. Have a great week, and God bless!